Creative procrastination
Creative people procrastinate with stylish aplomb. They omit
to do the needful yet receive a pat on the back from on lookers who marvel at
the diversionary activities opted for. Only their hearts hold the secrets of
what they really should be doing. They go out bungee jumping instead of staying
in to work on the CV. They research business models for fifteen years, bag MBAs
and PhDs when all they really needed to do was open a chain of fish and chips
stores. The list goes on. Creative people shackled by fear of the unknown can
coast through life winning awards and gaining admiration without even scratching
the surface of their life’s true work. The world of on lookers is formidable
for their cheers travel to distant ears and their applause cannot be ignored.
There is however a different kind of audience, one consisting of one person;
namely you. You might fool the world into thinking you are doing your best but
when the lights are out and you lay on your bed at night, only you knows if you
are doing the needful as defined by you.
So what is procrastination anyway? It is the postponement of
an action that needs to be taken in the present knowing fully well that doing
it later will incur some form of discomfort or loss. This is not laziness,
general apathy or being prudent. The lazy man has no ambition and has no actions
lined up which means he has nothing to postpone while the guy who has given up
on life and marinates in apathy does not procrastinate on life for life
procrastinates on him. As for the prudent, they know the actions to be taken
and intentionally re schedule some actions as they are fully aware that a ‘wait
and see approach’ is the diligent course of action in some situations.
True procrastination is self -diagnosed for only the
individual can decide if an action needs to be done and that he is refusing to
do it. Here the latin phrase nemo iudex in
sua causa (no-one should
be a judge in his own cause) does
not ring true for in this case the individual is the accused judge and jury of
his case.
There
are a few reasons why actions are postponed-
Fear-
Boy sees girl, boy likes girl, but then gets scared she may reject his advances
so he refuses to walk up to her and say, ‘show me particulars baby ko pull
over’
Distraction-
There are tax returns to do but the world cup is on.
Hard
work- Running is good but it is too hard
Self-consciousness-
‘I am too fat to run on the streets. Everyone will look at me’
Lack
of courage- ‘What if my new business fails? I better research the sector for 15
more years’
Adrenaline
junkie – These are people who need an adrenaline rush before they complete any
tasks. The do all their best work just before dead line. They work under
pressure. You see them in the world cup football matches playing the games of
their lives in the last five minutes. In colleges they read the most the night
before the examination.
Absolute
hatred for the activity- These include doing Tax returns, Ironing, Reading
books without pictures, going for medical examinations, going on courses,
learning to speak in public, reading personal development books, completing
assignments at work, and weight training.
Activities/Actions
The
good Lord knows humans will procrastinate so He made all activities essential
for life automatic- breathing, heart beats, functioning of internal organs,
intense thirst and drinking, sleeping and waking up, and the desire to
reproduce.
Easy
activities
Some
activities are easily attainable such as reading a book. Everybody needs to be
reading something but most people don’t. Books might get bought but never
opened. Distractions like Facebook and music videos eat into the time that
should be allocated for reading. Watching films that go on forever or soaps is
another distraction. Obesity is linked to Television viewing for no one
watching TV without eating and drinking while fewer will exercise while
watching their favourite soap. The mobile phone is another big distraction.
These toys offer immediate gratification so the harder tasks like reading which
develops the mind are relegated to the bottom of the immediate to do list.
Hard
activities
Some
dreams in life sound impossible both to the dreamer and his family and friends.
Everybody has one or two of such dreams. Starting on the impossible can be
daunting as there is usually no encouragement to do so from external quarters.
An unemployed individual starting on the long road to achieving his dream of
becoming a Billionaire business man will probably have no rich business men to
mentor him. If he decides to watch all the world cup games with his fellow
unemployed friends none of them will accuse him of failing to start preparing
himself to open his business. By watching every single game of the tournament,
he has something to tell people about how he spent his time. He might get
creative, go on the Fifa website and learn a lot of football trivia which might
impress a few people but deep down he knows he should have gone out to register
his company and get some momentum started.
The
opposite
Some
times to understand an activity that is delayed one could study the activities
that are done at the drop of a hat.
Why
are the things that you don’t need a second invitation to indulge in? How did
you get to that point where you act at the ‘drop of a hat’?
Can
your ‘drop of a hat’ rapid response in those areas be transferred to areas
where you procrastinate?
Dr
Wilson Orhiunu
Babawilly
6-7-2014
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